拒绝敏感度与人际关系综合诊断

The items below describe situations in which people sometimes ask things for others.For each item, Imagine that you are in the situation, and then answer the questions that below it.

以下题目主要以描述当人们对他人有所求的情景，请假设您身至于情景之中，并完成其中每道题目。

Q1：Gender性别

Male男

Female女

Q2：what is you education level?

Junior college大专

Bachelor大学

Master or above硕士及以上

Q3：Do you have significant other?是否有对象？

Yes, I do有

No, I don't没有

Q4：You ask your parents or another family member for a loan to help you through a difficult finical time.在遇到困难时，你向的父母或者家人借钱度过难关。

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not your family would want to help you?你会有多在乎或者多担心你的家人是否愿意帮助你？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that they would agree to help as much as th-ey can.我会期待他们尽所有可能帮助我 ★★★★★★

Q5：You approach a close friend to talk after doing or saying something that seriously upset him/her.你做了某件事或说了某些话，冒犯到你的好朋友时

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not your friend would want to talk with you?你会有多担心你的朋友是否愿意和你说话？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would want to talk with me to try to work things out.我会期待他/她能和我把事情说清楚。 ★★★★★★

Q6：You bring up the issue of sexual protection with your significant other and tell him/her how important you think it is.你像你的男朋友/女朋友提出关于性方面的话题，然后告诉他/她你认为性有多重要时。

How concerned or anxious would you be over his/her reaction?你会有多在乎他/她的反应？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would be willing to discuss our possible options without getting defensive.我会期望他/她愿意和我讨论我们能做到的可能性而不是辩论真吵。 ★★★★★★

Q7：You ask your supervisor for help with a problem you have been having at work.当你学习遇到困难时，你向你的导师求助

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not the person would want to help you?你会有多担心他/她是否愿意帮助你？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would want to try to help me out.我会期待他/她能尽力帮助我。 ★★★★★★

Q8：After a bitter augment, you call or approach your significant other because you want to make up.在一番激烈争吵过后，你打电话和你的男朋友/女朋友说你想要面谈。

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not your significant other would want to make up with you?你会有多担心或在乎你的男朋友/女朋友是否愿意和你见面？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would be at least as eager to make up as I would be.我会期待他/她能同我见面。 ★★★★★★

Q9：You ask your parents or you family members to come to an occasion that important to you.你邀请你的父母或者家人参加一个对你很重要的场合。

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not they would want to come?你会有多担心他们是否会来？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would want to come.我会期待他们来。 ★★★★★★

Q10：At a party, you notice someone on the other side of the room that you'd like to get to know,and you approach him or her to try to start a conversation.在一处聚会上，你注意到了某个人，想要靠近他/她和他/她搭讪。

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not the person would want to talk with you?你会有多担心对方是否想要和你说话？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would want to talk with me.我会期待对方想要和我说话。 ★★★★★★

Q11：Lately you have been noticing some distance between yourself and your significant other, and you ask him/her if there is something wrong.最近，你留意到你和你的男朋友/女朋友有些疏远，你想要问他/她你们之间是否出现什么问题？

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not he/she still loves you and wants to be with you?你会有多在乎他/她是否还爱你，还会继续和你在一起？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she will show sincere love and commitment to our relationship no matter what else may be going on.我会期待他/她能真心实意的对待我们的感情，无论发生什么都能共同面对。 ★★★★★★

Q12：You call a friend when there is something on your mind that you feel you really need to talk about.当你想要倾诉时，你打电话给你的朋友

How concerned or anxious would you be over whether or not you friend would want to listen?你会有多在乎你的朋友是否愿意主动倾听？ ★★★★★★

I would expect that he/she would listen and support me.你期待他/她能倾听并且支持你。 ★★★★★★

Q13：这是一份人际关系行文困扰的诊断量表，帮助您了解人际关系中的焦虑和心理健康问题，请认真阅读，在每道题目中判断，是或者否。

Q14：关于自己的烦恼有口难言。

是

否

Q15：和生人见面感觉不自然。

是

否

Q16：过分羡慕和嫉妒别人

是

否

Q17：与异性交往太少

是

否

Q18：对连续不断的会谈感到困难

是

否

Q19：在社交场合感到紧张

是

否

Q20：时常伤害别人

是

否

Q21：与异性交往感到不自然

是

否

Q22：与一大群朋友在一起，常感到孤寂或失落

是

否

Q23：极易受窘

是

否

Q24：与别人不能和睦相处

是

否

Q25：不知道与异性相处如何适可而止

是

否

Q26：当不熟悉的人对自己倾诉他的生平遭遇以求同情时，自己常感到不自在。

是

否

Q27：担心别人对自己有什么坏印象

是

否

Q28：总是尽力使别人欣赏自己

是

否

Q29：暗自思慕异性

是

否

Q30：时常避免表达自己的感受

是

否

Q31：对自己的仪表（容貌）缺乏信心

是

否

Q32：讨厌某人或被某人所讨厌

是

否

Q33：瞧不起异性

是

否

Q34：不能专注地倾听

是

否

Q35：自己的烦恼无人可申诉

是

否

Q36：受别人排斥与冷漠

是

否

Q37：被异性瞧不起

是

否

Q38：不能广泛地听取各种意见、看法。

是

否

Q39：自己常因受伤害而暗自伤心。

是

否

Q40：常被别人谈论、愚弄。

是

否

Q41：与异性交往不知如何让更好地相处

是

否